penyesalan pelaku sex bebas setelah mereka tua
Semalem, pas gw lagi asik2nya lurking di salah satu forum bule, gw nemu pernyataan ini nih
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"I have never heard of anyone doing these mixers or something, but I heard a lot from my my friends and some of my relatives about what happens if they take love for granted, or making love as something not special. In summary, lust dies down, and what replaced it is loneliness; constantly seeking for love, but realized that its too late for them to find one, and that they had been such fools all along. One advice from a friend of mine (a girl) who didn't care about love and sex, so she kept switching boyfriends all the time, even go as far as cheating to them, when she even said that some of them really loved her, but she didnt care at the time. All she cared about was passion and excitement, and you know what happened? She got pregnant, and no one cared or loved her, she became a single parent with no one willing to stay by her side.
Another situation I heard from my relative, who enjoys doing one night stands, having different girls every time, not sticking with one, not falling in love thinking such a concept is over rated, and that staying committed in a relationship and having one partner is dull, you know what happened to him? He's now in his 50's and couldn't find anyone to settle down with, couldnt find love and life partner (soul mate), and he regrets it with all his life.
Also a situation similar to those above, someone I know who kept having sex with different partners, and not caring about love thinking it isnt special. Then after time, she told me it felt empty, which meant such excitement and lust died down, and all that's left for her is nothing. Those who used to love her, and those who couldve loved her knows and thinks she is just a **** now, and no one would take her seriously anymore. Basically her past haunted her, and she now felt all the things she was done was just for the heat of the moment, and it was only for a moment. She gave me a good advice though : "that if you must make love to someone, do it to someone you love and someone who loves you as well, because other than that it's just boring and empty."
So after hearing all these people's situation, I really know how such activities like mixers are for pitiful people who thinks that they can be happy and satisfied forever for doing it, not knowing that they wont be continue that when they grow old, and all that's left for them are loneliness and sadness."
intinya, seperti kata pepatah, habis manis sepah dibuang :llaugh:
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